Mintball wrote: ...Perhaps more closely echoing what Dally is describing, how do posters here feel about private households hiring a cleaner – assuming that any person who takes such a job is paid the proper rate and is treated with the respect they'd treat any other person they came into contact with who was doing a job?
I can well imagine that relatively affluent young dinkies or high-earning young singles with either no "house sense" or no interest in keeping the house clean would be better off employing a cleaner, not demeaning at all, it converts the employer's money into free time and the cleaner's time into money ... and the cleaner would probably be a professional cleaner with several or even many clients, rather than being the the looked-down-upon Mrs Mop of the old days.
If the cleaner is originally from a mediterranean country, the client will pay a fortune for the gallons of bleach and polish but the house will absolutely reek of reassuring cleanliness.
You could term it as domestic outsourcing, like getting pizza delivered instead of cooking.
As an aside, I have an elderly aunt who has employed a cleaner for many years, even when she (the aunt) was at home all day with little to do.
Like a lady who lunches.
She was tut-tutted by family disapproval on that count, the general consensus being that she was a "mawk" and way "above herself".
Mind you, she used to tidy-up before the cleaner arrived, she didn't want the cleaner thinking they were an untidy family.
She and the cleaner used to spend more time drinking tea together than the cleaner spent cleaning.